survey from Ara

1. Have you ever felt so heart broken, that it really feels like your heart hurts?

-- yep

2. Do you think that your ex still has feelings for you?

-- uhm, idk.

3. What are the best things to say to someone who dumped you?

-- uhm, idk. i haven't really been dumped - dumped, so, idk.

4. What is the glue that sticks together a broken heart?

-- believing that you can survive ... and of course, friends

5. What would you do if your ex just showed up at your house right now?

-- i don't have a house

6. Whats the worst part about a breakup?

-- when one of the parties involved can't move on

7. What's the number one reason couples break up?

-- #1? uhm ... idk. it would either be monotony, someone got caught cheating (not coz of the cheating but coz they got caught), unhappiness

8. Did your first breakup destroy you completely?

-- uhm, no, not really

9. Do guys have any emotions after a breakup?

-- yeah

10. Can you remember what you did right after your breakup with your last bf or gf?

-- went to work then went drinking with my girlfriends after the shift

11. What's the worst thing someone could have said to "comfort" you during a break up?

-- "are you ok?" ... duh, kakabreak lang ... how can you be ok? haha.

12. What is the most cowardly way to break up with someone?

-- disappearing from the face of the earth, or doing it by text, email or phone. things like that have to be done face to face

13. What's the worst thing a girl/guy can do to you after a breakup?

-- make up shit about the relationship and the breakup, then spread it to everyone

14. Have you ever broken up with someone and felt good about it?

-- well, not really felt good about it, but there was some relief ... that ... i am free and my energy won't be drained anymore

15. What are some good break up lines?

-- "i'm sorry, but this is just not working" ... cliche.

16. Have you ever broken someone's heart?

-- yep

17. Do you still think about your ex?

-- i don't think of my ex in a "longing" for him kinda of way

18. How do you stop the tears after your first love breaks up with you?

-- i distracted myself with other stuff

19. Would you end a relationship because your partner cheated?

-- uhm. idk. maybe, maybe not. depends on how far in the relationship we are or how my feelings are for him.